In-Laws, Outlaws, and God’s Perfect Timing

Family. It’s the word that defines so much of who we are — and yet, sometimes, it’s the people who marry into our family that end up teaching us the most about patience, grace, and love.

Today, I want to introduce you to my incredible in-laws: Frank and Leann.
If you’ve ever laughed about the idea of “in-law drama,” this story might surprise you — because while pop culture often paints in-laws as difficult, mine have been anything but.

Rewinding to 2015 — The Stone Mountain Connection

In 2015, I was deep into my second annual Step Up Be A Voice challenge — climbing Stone Mountain 100 times in 90 days to raise awareness for pediatric cancer.

It was during that season that I met Shannon — my wife. But what most people don’t know is that I also met my future in-laws that same week. Shannon brought them along to climb with me.

At the time, we had no idea what God was orchestrating behind the scenes. We were simply focused on the cause, on the challenge, and on making an impact.

That day, I met Leann — and we realized she had actually taught my brother years earlier in 9th grade honors English. Small world, right?

Meet Frank and Leann — The Teachers Who Taught More Than Lessons

Both Frank and Leann are lifelong educators.
Frank was a middle school PE and health teacher — and a lacrosse coach too.
Leann taught high school English and drama for over 20 years.

Together, they’ve influenced thousands of students.
They’ve taught life lessons, modeled patience, and shown what it means to pour into others — both inside and outside the classroom.

When I met them, they instantly welcomed me. Shannon and I got engaged 10 months later and married a year after. Looking back, those were some of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

“Take a Page Out of Frank’s Book”

I have a saying I came up with early on in our relationship:
“Take a page out of Frank’s book.”

If you’ve ever met him, you understand why.
Frank is calm, collected, and unshakably positive. He makes husbandhood and parenting look effortless. And I’m convinced that kind of patience is learned only by teaching middle schoolers for decades!

My Own Struggle With Space and Connection

Even though I’m outgoing, I’ve always been pretty guarded.
After getting sober in 2012, I learned to protect my peace — and I often kept people at arm’s length.

So when Shannon and I started our life together, and her parents came into the picture full of energy and warmth, I struggled internally. I wasn’t used to that level of closeness.

I never said it out loud, but I often wished for more space.
It wasn’t a them problem — it was a me problem.

When they became grandparents (“Popeye” and “Mimi”), they were around even more. And I’ll admit — part of me battled with that closeness.

Then Came the Move

In 2020, our family moved 900 miles away to Dallas, Texas — away from friends, family, and my in-laws.
And honestly? I felt a sense of relief at first.

That first year, they visited a few times — and it was actually… nice.
Then, they decided to move too. Two miles away.

My first reaction?
“Oh no… here we go again.”

But God was teaching me something: proximity isn’t the problem — perspective is.

The Truth About Frank and Leann

People have told me for years,
“Krish, you won the in-law lottery.”

They’re right.

Frank and Leann are the real deal.
They’re reliable, selfless, and always there when we need them — through hospital stays, surgeries, baby arrivals, moves, parties, you name it.

They’ve never once let us down.
They are pillars of our family — the kind of people who make you realize how lucky you are just to know them.

The Lesson: Let Go and Let Love In

For a long time, I saw closeness as intrusion.
Now, I see it as grace in motion.

If you’ve built invisible walls to protect your peace, ask yourself:
Are they protecting you… or preventing you from growing?

Sometimes the very people you’re keeping at a distance are the ones God placed in your life to bless you.

Recently, my mother-in-law had a health scare with cancer. She’s recovering and doing well — thank God — but it was a sobering reminder: life is short, and family is everything.

Don’t let comfort rob you of connection.
Love them now. Appreciate them now.
Take a page out of Frank’s book — and let the small stuff slide.